Do's and Don'ts During the Two-Week Wait After Embryo Transfer
Transfer Day is an exciting and hopeful point on your fertility journey, but the two-week wait that follows can be a challenging period filled with stress, anxiety and impatience. To help you make the most of this crucial time, we consulted with Monika and Mel from our amazing IVF team. They shared some important do's and don'ts to help you through the two-week wait post embryo transfer.
❌Don't Google - Trust Your Medical Team for Guidance
We know it’s tempting, but one of the most common instincts during the two-week wait is to turn to Google for answers and reassurance. However, this can lead to unnecessary stress and confusion. Remember your fertility journey is unique to you and best understood by your medical team. Rely on their expertise and guidance to ease your concerns and not Dr. Google.
✅Follow Medication Instructions
Unless instructed otherwise by your doctor, make sure to continue your medication regimen. Medications like progesterone help support embryo implantation. Consistency in following your doctor's orders is key to your success.
❌Don't Take a Pregnancy Test
It's natural to be anxious and eager to confirm a positive outcome, but taking a home pregnancy test too early can be inaccurate and potentially lead to disappointment. These tests may show a negative result because it's too soon to detect the necessary hormone levels. Or, in some cases, they might show a positive result, but the pregnancy may not continue to develop as expected. Instead, wait for the blood test, which provides more accurate and reliable results.
✅ Rest on Transfer Day, but Stay Active
While it's important to take it easy on the day of the embryo transfer, this doesn't mean you need to spend the entire two weeks in bed. Light activities such as walking can actually help boost blood flow, potentially benefiting the implantation process.
❌ Don’t Have Sexual Intercourse
To support the best conditions for the embryos to implant, refrain from sexual intercourse and orgasm during the two-week wait. This helps prevent uterine contractions that may interfere with the process.
✅ Do Delay Having a Bowel Movement
After the embryo transfer, it's wise to avoid any activities that might strain the pelvic area, including pushing during a bowel movement. Wait for about 5 hours before trying to have a bowel movement.
❌ Don't Drink Alcohol
During this critical period, it's best to maintain a healthy lifestyle, including your diet. Avoiding alcohol and focusing on a well-balanced diet is essential.
✅ Try to Relax and Manage Stress and Anxiety
Stress and anxiety are natural during the two-week wait, but managing these emotions is crucial. Consider relaxation techniques such as acupuncture, yoga, journaling or simply pampering yourself. A calm mind supports your fertility journey.
Always remember to follow the specific instructions provided by your dedicated care team. They are here to support and guide you through this journey. You're not alone, and we're here for you every step of the way.
For any concerns or questions, don't hesitate to reach out to our team. We're here to provide the care and assistance you need.
Avoiding a Second Surgery: How a Change in Medication Could Lead to Pregnancy
Our last blog post detailed a successful isthmocele repair surgery that will hopefully lead to a healthy pregnancy. Today’s post is a little different.
Here is a case where surgery, performed by another surgeon, had failed. The patient, Lindsey*, was still symptomatic with fluid in the cavity. Dr. Miller provided the patient with a new medical protocol, avoiding a second surgery.
Read Lindsey’s story to find out the result.
After almost four years of struggling with secondary infertility, I was fortunate enough to discover Dr. Charles Miller and the Advanced IVF Institute. I had been diagnosed with an isthmocele, which was a defect in my cesarean scar that was leading to fluid accumulation in my endometrial cavity. Just reaching the diagnosis of an isthmocele and the potential impact it could have on my fertility had taken many years. I was exhausted, frustrated, and unsure if I would ever have another child. My local physicians seemed to be at an impasse. Despite having my isthmocele surgically repaired, I was continuing to develop fluid which was impairing the ability of my physicians to transfer any embryos.
After contacting Dr. Miller, I knew it was the right decision. He was very resolute in the forward management of my situation. He did not recommend a repeat surgery to repair the defect that had not been successfully repaired. This was initially surprising to me! Repeat surgery seemed to be the obvious decision, but his thoughts were that possibly changing the protocol for my Frozen Embryo Transfer (FET) would decrease the amount of fluid I was producing.
When transferring frozen embryos, the usual protocol is to use estrogen and the route can vary (i.e. oral, patch, intramuscular). The patient then adds progesterone prior to the transfer. Unfortunately, in my case, the estrogen caused a build-up of fluid, particularly with the isthmocele.
Due to his extensive experience in this matter, I trusted Dr. Miller’s judgment and I am so thankful that I did. After two previously canceled FET cycles with other protocols, I followed the protocol set forth by Dr. Miller on my third attempt.
The protocol that he recommended, and he said was successful on many occasions, is that rather than utilizing estrogen initially, the meds are used to stimulate the ovaries so that my own estrogen levels rise. Thus, taking away the need to utilize estrogen.
I am ecstatic to say that it worked and I am eternally grateful to Dr. Miller and his staff. We are set to welcome our miracle in May 2018!!
-Lindsey
*Name changed to protect patient privacy

