As we wrap up Endometriosis Awareness Month, it’s only fitting that we share a patient story with you. Charlinda had endured years of pain and surgeries because of her endometriosis and wondered if she would ever be able to have a child. In 2017, she was referred to Dr. Miller. He performed surgery and three short months later, Charlinda conceived her son, Preston. Today is Preston’s 6th birthday! Charlinda shares her journey so that others won’t let a diagnosis like endometriosis discourage them from motherhood. Read Charlinda’s inspiring story below.
I remember how what first looked like a super sad day actually became a blessing in disguise. Sitting nervously in my OBGYN office, hearing her tell me she could no longer see me, felt like a huge break up. She was the only doctor I trusted since moving to Illinois. Due to the numerous endometriosis surgeries she performed on me and the fact that I wanted to become a mom one day, she felt there was another doctor who could better help me. With tears in my eyes, I reluctantly took the number of Dr. Charles Miller.
At the time, I was in my late 30s and not feeling particularly optimistic about meeting a new doctor and his staff for the first time. However, my OBGYN said Dr. Miller was the best in the area and I trusted her judgment. I walked into the waiting room and saw anxious couples and beautiful baby pics posted on the walls. At that moment I told myself my child will be on that wall one day. I finally met Dr. Miller who just returned from vacation, fully tanned and full of life. He listened intently as I explained my health journey and how I knew IVF financially wasn’t an option. It’s been some years but I do remember him saying this was not a problem and that he would get me as close as he could as though I would be an IVF patient. Per his recommendations, I exercised more and ate a healthier diet in preparation of my surgery to remove the endometriosis. I can honestly say after all of my other surgeries this one was the easiest recovery I ever experienced. I followed his plan to a tee and I conceived three months later. Now my son just turned 6 years old.
I know everyone’s journey is different but I share my story so others won’t allow a diagnosis that “may” increase infertility discourage you. Once realizing I was determined to defy the odds, I kept reminding myself what my parents constantly told me, fear and faith cannot live in the same house. I was so proud to announce to Dr. Miller I had a successful pregnancy. Once he knew I conceived, it was onto the next patient. This just goes to show his dedication to his craft. This is so important because I didn’t need him to hold my hand but to get me healthy enough for a fighting chance to conceive naturally. I was glad to get him quickly back to make other women moms. Words can’t express the gratitude our family has towards Dr. Miller and his entire staff!! Thank you.