What is IVF? It stands for In Vitro Fertilization, but it means a whole lot more for many women and their partners who are going through it.

Scientifically, IVF is an assisted reproductive technology in which eggs are extracted and manually fertilized with sperm in a laboratory setting. The resulting embryo is then transferred to the uterus.

IVF has created millions of successful births to couples who opted to use the technology to become pregnant. It is an option for women and men who have had trouble conceiving naturally, including older women who statistically have a more difficult time becoming pregnant. It is also a viable option for single women who are interested in becoming pregnant as well.

How does IVF work?

In most cases, women are first given fertility drugs to help stimulate egg production so that several eggs can be extracted at once to boost the chance of success. During this time, your fertility specialist will take blood samples to test hormone levels and examine your ovaries as well.

Once the eggs are ready for retrieval, the woman undergoes minor surgery to have them removed. The procedure involves the use of a needle in the pelvic cavity to remove the eggs. After retrieval, the eggs are placed in a laboratory dish along with semen from a partner or donor. In some cases, particularly in situations where fertilization chances are lower, a sperm is directly injected into an egg to encourage fertilization. Once the eggs are successfully fertilized and monitored for cell division, they are then transferred into the woman’s uterus using a catheter. This usually takes place between three to five days after fertilization.

Are there risks with IVF?

IVF has its risks the same as any other medical procedures. Some include nausea and vomiting, shortness of breath, severe stomach pain, infection to the bladder and bowel, and risk of carrying multiple pregnancies, which has its own risks.

People who choose to go through IVF should consider counseling with an IVF specialist first to decide whether it’s the right path for you. While IVF often comes with a rewarding end – a successful pregnancy – it can also have many emotional and physical, not to mention financial tolls.

How do I find an IVF clinic?

There are many doctors who specialize in infertility and IVF. Talk with your gynecologist about doctors they are familiar with and whose reputations are highly rated. Meet with a few specialists to see what their approach is and whether they seem like a good fit. While it’s tempting to go with a place that’s known to be friendly with good bedside manners, which are important, sometimes it’s best to choose a place with a high success rate because, in the end, that’s what you’re aiming for. Most importantly, when going through IVF, it’s important to have a strong support system in place. Involve your partner and your family through the process, and seek out friends or a group who understand what’s happening as well.